Five Do’s and Don’t’s of dating

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Dating has grown to be very popular! Dating can help with finding your significant other but for most people, it isn’t easy and takes a lot of time and effort. Dating can be a very fun and rewarding experience but for some, it can be very nerve-racking. Meeting new people leading to your first date can cause anxiety so to help you through the nerves and butterflies here are few tips that will help you make a good first impression and find the one!

Bring a gift

Buying a gift for your date is a romantic gesture that can help set the tone for the rest of the date. It doesn’t need to be expensive! But if it’s your first date you are in fact better off not getting anything super expensive until you get to know each other better. Small homemade gifts will do just fine in the beginning fazes of your relationship and then as you get to know you each other you can opt for more expensive things. Gifts are not necessary on first dates but can be perceived as thoughtful and kind and leave a good first impression.

Smelling Good

First impressions are everything so that is why it is so important to make an effort to look good and smell nice! Have a pampering session before your date and use your favorite perfumes and if you have time for it maybe take a relaxing bath and use your favorite bath bombs to get rid of any bad odors. Smelling good for your date is so important because you will most likely be sitting very close to them so don’t hesitate to use your favorite fragrances. Although smelling good is important try not to go overboard with the fragrances because some people are sensitive to them and going to strong on the fragrances may be a turnoff!

Confidence

Demonstrating confidence is an attractive quality as it shows you are comfortable in your own skin and happy with who you are. However, too much confidence can be perceived as arrogance which can be a major turn-off for your date. Confidence is expressed through the way you act and behave. Perhaps speaking about a subject you’re passionate about or a job that you’re good at doing can help demonstrate your confidence to your date.

Conversation

If you are disabled educating your date on your disability is so important but you don’t want to tell them too much too soon or you could scare them off! You are trying to learn just as much about them as they are about you so instead of telling them a bunch of facts about your disability try to get to know them first and then as the relationship progresses then you could start to educate your partner on your disability. Conversations like asking them about their exes or which divorce lawyers in Orange County they used during their settlement will not lead to a second date so if you can don’t ask these questions! Instead, ask questions about there interests and hobbies and try to establish some common ground to help the conversation flow better and avoid awkward silences. Asking questions shows your date you’re interested in learning about them.

Bill Paying

Who pays the bill? The first date can always be awkward because you are still getting to know each other so figuring out who pays the bill can be a tricky one but if done incorrectly it can lead to a wrong impression. Paying for your partner’s meal may leave a wrong impression on your first date because that indicates you didn’t enjoy the date so to avoid any wrong impressions always offer to pay! This will express to your date your willingness and generosity and your avoidance of complicating what a wonderful time you’re having.

You never know if your first date is going to be with the one and if it isn’t that is okay. Give it your best effort as if it was the one and if it fails just enjoy the journey you can’t do anything more! If you gave something a try with your best efforts but it didn’t work out then probably was not meant to be and should be proud of yourself for trying. Never give something half the effort unless you are okay with only have the results!  For more advice on dating see disabled and single? here’s why.

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